We’ve all heard the expression “food is love”. It’s one of those expressions that people throw around, sometimes when grandma feeds them too much, that looses meaning over time. I confess that I didn’t understand the expression at all, until I began spending time in Italy. Then I experienced it.
Early this summer, soon after my arrival at our home in Umbria, I came down with a terrible bout of stomach flu. Probably something I’d picked up on the flight over, it really threw me for a loop. I was alone (my husband hadn’t yet arrived) and within 12 hours I had become so weak I could barely sit up.
This is when Anna Maria, my next door neighbor, decided to give me a call. “Tutto bene?” she asked. “Perchè la tua porta è chiuso ancora?” Is everything ok? Why is your door closed? (Italians often un-shutter doors and windows when they start their day.) I explained that I wasn’t feeling well, and would be staying inside today. (I left out the part that I felt like I was going to die.) “Madonna mia! Arrivo!” she declared. What? She’s not coming over now! I thought. Yes, she was.
A big hug and several Madonna mia‘s later, Anna Maria scurried back to her house to make what she insisted would be my cure. When she returned an hour or so later with a special zuppa, soup, that would save me, I must admit I was skeptical. Plus, I was still reeling at the mere thought of food or beverage. But I followed her instructions to try a few spoonfuls before nightfall, and to sip, sip, sip at the tea.
I ate Anna Maria’s soup that evening, and I continued to eat it for two solid days. Her simple zuppa, filled with tiny, salty pasta stars, tasted better than any meal I’d ever had in my life. She was right! Those little pasta stars were my cure!
Or maybe it was the generous dose of love she’d simmered them in.
Anna Maria’s Food-is-Love Zuppa
- Tiny pasta stars, boiled in salted water
- 1 cup chicken broth (preferably home-made)
- 1-2 T tomato paste
- fresh parsley, chopped
- 1-2 T extra virgin olive oil
Mix the cooked stars with chicken broth and tomato paste, and simmer for several minutes. Add more broth if soup is too thick. Add fresh parsley and olive oil, plus a little salt, if necessary. Serve with love.










